A Penis:
The Sexual Stimulator
Hygiene - Scent or Stink?
A school of experts maintains that sex odors, among which sweat is included, are quite powerful stimulators of lust and desire. Genital odors stimulate many men, and women often find the distinctive musky smell that the penis of some men gives off during sexual arousal very exciting. Both sexes should wash genital areas and anuses thoroughly before beginning a lovemaking session. This will reduce both stale aromas and bacterial load. This is a good opportunity for mutual caressing, fondling, and exploring each other's anus. The whole thing can take place in a mutually shared shower or bath. By the time you've finished, the man's penis will be at least half-erect, and the labia of the woman will be swollen and ready for further attention.
The Penis As Stimulator
Have you thought of the penis itself as a stimulator in foreplay? There are some ways to use the penis to caress sensitive spots or others....
The first of these spots is the obvious one: the clitoris and vaginal opening. There are some sexual positions where a couple can arrange themselves so that the clitoris can easily be stimulated.
(1) The couple lie on their sides facing one another, and the man, holding his penis just below the coronal rim, with two fingers on the frenulum and his thumb on top, teases the clitoris, which the woman is exposing for him by holding her labia apart, with the slippery glans penis. This caress of the clitoris is quite different in quality from the caress by a finger or tongue and can be highly arousing.
(2) The man lies on top of the woman, who, with her fingers, keeps her labia parted and clitoris exposed. He places his penis along the vaginal ridge with the glans head in the hair just above the clitoris so that when he raises his buttocks a little, the penis-head comes down over it, and when he lowers them, returns so that raising and lowering of the buttocks moves the penis backward and forwards across the clitoris. If he can establish the right rhythm, the sensations are superb.
(3) The man again lies on top of the woman but slightly higher up her so that the base of his penis, about an inch above the root, makes contact with the clitoris. He presses quite hard on the clitoris and moves his penis backward and forward by buttock swinging. (His penis is not in her vagina while he does this.)
(4) The man kneels astride the woman with his back to her, his bottom resting lightly on her belly, and himself placed in such a position that when he parts her labia to expose her clitoris with one hand and depresses his penis with the other, the penis-head makes contact with the clitoris. He rolls his glans from side to side over the clitoris with the fingers holding it down. By the way, only two fingers hold back the lips in a "wish-bone" attitude, and the penis head is inserted between the fingers. This is generally a technique for older men over the age, say, forty. Younger men's erections tend to be much more upstanding than the older man's, and to depress the penis this far would hurt. The angle of the older erect penis, while losing nothing at all of its stiffness, takes up a stance that is more horizontal than not. Still, this shouldn't stop a younger man from trying it out if he wants to!
The next spot is the inside of the vagina, in the sensitive area along the first third of the length of the vaginal barrel. This area is susceptible, but the muscle surrounding the entrance is the most sensitive. The man lies on top of his partner and puts only the head of his penis, as far as the coronal rim, in the vagina. By buttock-swinging, he teases the rim of the vaginal muscle with the rim of his penis head. This sexually turns on most women. The next spot is the breasts. Women often say they are turned on by nipple-penis contact, so it's worth a try.
The armpits.......most men and women are moderately, and quite a lot higher, sensitive in the armpits. The woman sits or kneels on the bed or an armless chair, with her back to her partner, who places himself behind her, standing, and puts his penis under her arm, high up in the pit. She lowers her arm to her side so that the penis is lightly held just in contact with the arm and trunk by it. The man swings with his buttocks, just as he does when he has his penis in the vagina. If he leans forward a little, he can see the glans appearing and disappearing at the top of the woman's breast, which he finds visually stimulating.
As well as being stimulated by the movement of the penis in the armpit, many women are also visually stimulated by watching the penis-head bobbing in and out by their breasts, one of the few visual stimuli that affect quite some women.
The back of the knees.......most women, and a large number of men, are susceptible to light caresses from the palm, the mouth, and tongue in the area at the back of the knee. This area is also sensitive to the movements of the penis. The woman sits on the bed or couch with one or both knees drawn up. The man stands at her side and inserts his penis in the crook of the knee - if she keeps her knees together and he can produce 7 inches of erection or more, he can usually reach the other knee crook as well so double the sensations for the woman. He swings his buttocks when he has his penis in the vagina. This will lead him to ejaculate pretty rapidly. If he cannot ejaculate easily during sex (i.e., he has delayed ejaculation), finding some area of his partner's body that especially turns him on may help to overcome the problem.
By the way, the degree to which the knee is bent must be nicely adjusted. It must not be bent so much that the penis is gripped by it and can hardly be moved, and not enough so that the penis does not make maximum contact with the skin of the knee crook while moving freely.
The anus.....more people than realize it is sensitive in the area of the anal opening. This is because the nerves surrounding the anus are directly connected with the sexual nervous system. The penis can be a stimulator in this area in two or three ways. First, the woman lies flat on her tummy, and the man mounts her, placing his well-lubricated penis between her buttock cheeks, the glans just over the anal opening. By moving his penis backward and forwards, he stimulates the nerves on the surface of the anal muscle. This is a good substitute for full anal sex positions.
Second, the woman kneels on the bed and leans forward until her head rests on the pillow. The man stands or kneels behind her and parts her buttock cheeks with one hand, thus exposing the anal opening. He thrusts forward his pelvis so that his penis makes contact with the anus. Taking his penis in his other hand, he rubs the anal opening with the glans.
Third, the woman lubricates her anal opening on the surface and inside very well with an excellent lubricant. (Saliva is not recommended.) He inserts the penis head only into the anal opening and moves it in and out fairly rapidly. The woman must be completely relaxed. Otherwise, she may have some pain.