Lingerie
Friend or Foe?
Yes, it will delight your honey but wear lingerie FOR YOU. Wearing lingerie under your "regular" clothes illicit such a sensual thrill - after all, you ARE harbouring a secret. Who else knows you are wearing super-sexy fishnets under your business attire except, well, the fishnets? Exactly. Wearing lingerie sometimes has nothing to do with anyone else. It's about feeling sexy all on your own. Just the idea that you are keeping this naughty info private could be a turn-on, too.
You truly never know who is wearing a lacy thong or granny panties. Imagine, the next time you interact with the bank teller you THOUGHT was boring; she could be wearing crotch-less panties! Now that's food for thought. I bet you'll think about this during your next visit to the bank drive-through! And let's not forget the sensual feeling of the various fabrics and textures of the lingerie. A slight rub of silk or lace under your skirt can give a perk in the middle of the day and possibly inspire a bathroom break :)
Some men prefer that their ladies wear a long T-shirt or a classic white, crisp business shirt. Everyone has a different opinion of what is sexy, and while some men LOVE to see their lovers in nothing but lace, truth be told, some still think lingerie is a "waste of time." But we won't talk about those people. Some joke that the lingerie doesn't stay on for that long, but that's obviously because your beloved is so turned on by your siren goddesses that he/she must have you at that moment. And if wearing a flimsy material will inspire such passion, why don a teddy occasionally?
Take time to strip-tease for your honey. The delicious torture will be worth every second. In general, think of ways to please and surprise your honey. Oh, the element of surprise. Remember we discussed keeping a little sexy secret all to yourself? Now think of what could happen if you dragged your honey into a coat closet at a party...and much to his surprise, you are wearing crotchless panties and a nipple-less bra under your most exquisite holiday dress. Hmmm...
Many of us feel self-conscious about our physical appearance, and our exterior doesn't always reflect our internal feelings. BUT I GUARANTEE YOU THAT AT THE EXACT MOMENT YOU ARE STANDING IN FRONT OF YOUR LOVER WEARING LITTLE MORE THAN DENTAL FLOSS AND A TINY TOP, HIS EYES WILL LIGHT UP FOR ONLY YOU. IN THAT MOMENT, ONLY YOU EXIST. No taunting magazines and videos are berating you for looking natural. There's just you and your honey. Go with it.
As a side note, lingerie can be expensive, so be creative! Use items you already have. You'd be surprised how turned on some people get when they see their partners in stockings and heels! Playing around and experimenting is part of what keeps a relationship thriving. So, what do YOU think about lingerie? Send me your feedback, and tune in on Friday for readers' comments! In the meantime, tune in on Wednesday, when we will discuss a long-time debate. As always, I remain...
Opt for form-fitting clothes: Instead of wearing baggy clothes that look frumpy, try clothes that fit your body well. This doesn't necessarily mean tight clothes, but clothes that flatter your figure.
- Show some skin: You can show a little skin without revealing too much. Wearing off-shoulder tops, crop tops, or shorts can help you feel and look confident.
- Choose fabrics that make you feel good: Soft and smooth fabrics such as silk, satin, or cotton can make you feel comfortable and sexy at the same time. Choose clothes made of these fabrics and feel like a queen.
- Accessorize: Just because you're at home doesn't mean you can't accessorize. Put on some earrings, bracelets, or a necklace to complete your outfit.
- Dress for your mood: Wear clothes that make you feel good and boost your mood. Choose clothes that make you feel confident and happy, whether it's a colourful dress or a cosy sweater.
- Remember, feeling sexy is all about how you feel on the inside. Wear clothes that make you feel good and look confident and sexy without trying too hard.