How To Make Her Sex Drive Stronger Than Yours!
Do you ever feel you have a HIGHER sex drive than your girl?
Maybe you're always the one who has to initiate sex... or maybe she's just not in the mood as often as you are.
If you find these things happening with your woman, you're not alone.
But, I'm going to venture that the REASON WHY she doesn't seem to want to make love as often as you do is NOT that she has a lower sex drive....
What is happening is...
You're Just Not Satisfying Her
Enough During Sex
To Make Her CRAVE It!
You see, for a woman to experience REAL sexual pleasure, she MUST be having orgasms.
Her moaning, saying it's good, or just letting you have sex with her IS NOT ENOUGH.
Think about how sex would feel for YOU if you always got "close"... but were never able to get off fully...
That would pretty much suck, right??
Well, that's exactly what your girl is going through if you're not giving her the mind-blowing orgasms she craves!
If you're not giving your girl orgasms when you make love, it may SEEM like she is having fun. But in reality, she's probably just being nice and sleeping with you because she feels she has to.
And if this is the case, then she won't want to have sex with you very often.
Worst case scenario... if she's been with a guy in the past who could give her orgasms... and you are not... she's probably not going to stick around very long unless you are married or financially supporting her.
It's sad but true.
But fortunately, since most guys DON'T know how to give a woman orgasms, you probably don't have anything to worry about. (But in a way, isn't that even sad?!? LOL!)
On the upside, giving a woman orgasms is not DIFFICULT... it's just DIFFERENT!
A woman's body works very differently than a man's, and once you know the subtle differences, it's actually very EASY to give your woman not just one orgasm... but 2, 3, 4 or more... even different kinds!
And Here's The Best Part...
When you can give your woman orgasms, sex with you is not frustrating... it's FUN!
So, of course, she'll want to have sex with you all the time!
Oftentimes, she'll even be the one asking you for sex.
You can trust me on that =)
Here's How To TELL
If You Are Getting Her Off...
The lesson to take away here is that your girl's "sex drive" and how often she wants to have sex with you have nothing to do with body chemistry... and everything to do with whether or not you are sexually satisfying her.
With this in mind, here's how to tell if you are:
If your girl wants sex at least 3-4 times a week, you are satisfying her.
If she DOESN'T want sex at least 3-4 times a week, then I am sorry, but you are not.
It's really that simple.
How To Make SURE You
Satisfy Your Woman Every Time...
Step 1.) Start By Giving Her A Foreplay Orgasm Every Time
Giving a girl an orgasm through intercourse is a MUCH more intense experience for a girl, and giving her one of these body-shaking orgasms usually requires you to know some techniques.
Of course, the best place to see those techniques is in my program, 2 Girls Teach Sex, but you already knew that =)
On the other hand, giving a woman a foreplay orgasm is easy.
So easy, that...
There is NO EXCUSE for being unable to give your girl a foreplay orgasm!
So let's talk about how to do it, shall we?
But first, REMEMBER:
While you'll give her this orgasm during foreplay, it's essential that you continue to think of foreplay as PART of the sex... because, to your girl, it is!
Women love foreplay, and you can keep it going until she is DESPERATE for you to be inside of her. Women LOVE this!
Here are a few ways to keep the foreplay going:
- Kiss her for 10-15 minutes before taking off their clothes (hers or yours)
- Rub her over her "area" for 5 FULL minutes and refuse to take her panties or clothes off no matter how much she or you wants it - tell her how much she wants you AND how much you want her.
If you start the technique I'm about to share with you AFTER you do all this stuff, then you are almost GUARANTEED to give her a foreplay orgasm =)
So.. the easiest way to give her a foreplay orgasm is by stimulating her "love button."
Here's one way to do it that I know your girl will like =)
When massaging it, use one finger in circular strokes directly on it, but to the upper right.
Think of it like the 1:30 position on a clock. For reasons I can't explain, this particular area of a woman's clitoris is packed with more nerve endings than the rest!
Ensure she is wet, or add lube (you can also lick your finger).
It's vital that you keep a steady pressure the whole time, but not too hard! We, girls, are much more sensitive than you are, so start off light, and don't go harder until she starts pressing herself against you.
Once she starts lifting her hips towards you, go a little faster... and tell her SOFTLY and GENTLY, "Come for me, baby and relax." This reassures her that it's "ok" to let herself go, and often you reassuring her is precisely what she needs to go from feeling good to going OVER THE TOP and having an incredible orgasm!
Step 2.) Discover How To Give Her More Advanced Orgasms
Giving a woman a foreplay orgasm is always a good time... but if you REALLY want to take her pleasure to a level that no man ever has before, you're gonna have to give her the more ADVANCED types of orgasms that make her whole body pulsate with pleasure! The type of orgasms that leave her lying there wondering what just happened... and instantly have her calling you the BEST she's ever had!